βQβ: SO THIS IS MY FIRST SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP & EVERYTHING WAS GOING GOOD TILL LIKE 3 WEEKS AGO WHEN HE SWITCHED UP ON ME & STARTED ACTING DIFFERENT. HE BARELY TALKED TO ME TO ALL WEEK AND NOW IS IGNORING ME...AM I OVER REACTING IF I THINK HE'S CHEATING OR I GOT PLAYED? WHAT SHOULD I DO?
βAβ: WOW heβs a total jerk!!! Liiikkkeee WTF!!! Iβm sorry youβre having to deal with this, like thatβs unacceptable behavior that definitely needs an explanation!!! Now, being that I donβt know this boy I cant really call it on whether or not heβs cheating, BUT that certainly is the first thing that comes to mind. π€¦π½ββοΈ
Sooooo when handling this, I would say itβs time to break into SPY MODE!!! Thats right!!! Time to investigate the fuck outta him to figure out wtf is really goin on, because the truth is ALWAYS in PLAIN SIGHT! Sooo donβt over think it. Follow your intuition and TRUST THAT GUT!!! STOP CALLING AND TEXTING his ass. No need to raise your blood pressure and make your anxiety flare up waiting on his responseβ¦. at this point, itβs FUCK HIM!!!! Youβve got to find the truth because heβs NOT gonna give it to you.
Now when you do find the truth, you have to make the best decision for you, keep in mind, he may not have been cheating, he may have been going through some personal things that he didnβt want to involve you inβ¦. BUT STILL my first response would be to just drop his ass (or make him think youβve dropped him! sooo really just ignore hime how he ignored youπ)!!! Because he could at least responded and let you know heβs ok and will talk to you later!!! I know thatβs petty, BUT sometimes the best way to teach someone a lesson is to treat them how they treated youπ€·π½ββοΈ
Soooo when he comes back, which he will, because they always come back, accept the truth he gives you, if he gives you one at all, and TREAT HIM ACCORDINGLY!! He has shown you who he is and what heβs capable of, itβs time for you to do the sameβ¦.
and REMEMBER to make the BEST decision for you⦠NOT the decision he wants you to make. You are in control of your life and what you choose to allow!